Patsy R Stanley

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved mother, grandmother, and friend, Patsy Ruth Stanley, who passed away peacefully on March 5, 2025, at the age of 93. Born on November 10, 1931, in Chattanooga, TN, Patsy was the eldest of six children of the late Malachi and Annie Mae Davis. She graduated from High School in Chattanooga TN. Patsy pursued her passion for beauty and graduated from beautician school, working in a salon in Tennessee. Patsy’s faith was the cornerstone of her life. As a member of Antioch Baptist Church, she discovered her love for music and, under the guidance of her teacher Ms. Lois, became an accomplished pianist. In 1952, at the age of 20, Patsy moved to Baltimore, MD, where she built a life dedicated to her family, faith, and community. Patsy was a faithful servant of the Lord and joined Salem Thessalonian Baptist Church upon arriving in Baltimore, where she served as the pianist for the Sunday School and Children’s Church. Patsy continued as a beautician for many years, but also worked as a substitute teacher, a home caretaker, and later trained with the Maryland Health Department in Addiction Services, earning her associate in arts degree from the Community College of Baltimore. She later became a dedicated member of New St. Mark Baptist Church, where she continued as a pianist, Sunday School teacher, and member of the Missionary Circle. She also served in the Soup Kitchen, offering kindness and nourishment to those in need. Eventually, she transitioned her membership to Calvary Baptist Church to worship alongside her family. A woman of many talents, Patsy had a passion for cooking and baking, and her homemade dishes were a highlight of every family gathering. She had a deep love for children and was affectionately known as the “Candy Lady”, often giving out books, school supplies, and treats to the neighborhood kids. She was also a Cub Scout Den Mother and a cherished member of her community. Her kindness and generosity knew no bounds. Patsy was well known in the McCulloh Homes and Upton Community, always willing to lend a helping hand, share a meal, or offer a word of encouragement. She was lovingly regarded as “everyone’s grandmother”, touching countless lives with her warmth and compassion. She was a devoted and loving mother to her three sons, Kenny, JoJo, and Terry, always providing them with guidance and unwavering support (with a dose of discipline when necessary). Patsy is preceded in death by two sons Kenny (and Barbara) and JoJo, grandchildren Cherelle and Little Kenny, sister Malverine, and brothers Earl and Donald. She leaves behind a legacy of love, survived by her brothers Allen and Melvin, her youngest son Terry (Jackie), granddaughters Tasha, Teil, and Teneek, and great-grandchildren Breona, Kennedy, Garland Jr., Taevian, Takira, Earl Jr., Jace, Rae, Brice, Chloe, Chance, Claque, and Quent, along with a host of nieces, cousins, and other loving family members and friends. Rest in peace, dear mother. You will forever be in our hearts and memories!

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Patsy R Stanley

November 10, 1931 - March 5, 2025